Monday, 29 April 2013

Only 8 Weeks To Go! OMG!


I may have mentioned once or twice, I’m off to Australia for my dream holiday. We are now firmly into Spring and the worst of the Winter is hopefully behind us.  With the sun shining and the light evenings peoples’ spirits begins to lift and thoughts are turning to summer and well-earned holidays.  I’m no different but now beginning to realize that there’s so much to sort out before I can even step on the plane.
Now I thought I was quite good at sorting myself out for trips.  In my former job I was constantly travelling, so packing my overnight bag and getting to the airport was no problem.   However, when I take a bit longer to recall the reality my assistant, Val, made all the travel arrangements.  All I had to do was pack my bag and sit on a plane and you wouldn’t believe the number of times I messed that up!

When it came to family holidays well I had even less involvement.  Caroline would book the flight, holiday, pack the cases ensuring we were within the weight limit, book the taxi to the airport, sort the kids out etc.   Whenever I was asked to do anything I would respond with “Don’t worry!  We’ve got ages yet”
On reflection I have absolutely no idea what is involved.
Now lets face it, its only me going to Australia, the holiday is booked and all I got to do is to get to the airport.  Well that’s what I thought. 
First of all Georgina is going on holiday for a week three days after I leave.  No doubt there will some small panics that will need to be sorted but Georgina is fairly organized.  But then there is my lovely handsome boy, Joe.  Quite a different kettle of fish.   Whilst Georgina is away Joe will be on his own for that week.
Caroline and I were making plans to travel without the kids as they got older and more independent but he has gone through a lot over the past year I do feel overly protective towards Joe. When I look back to the time when I was 17 I feel that I was more grown up.  That’s not Joes fault. There is definitely a tendency nowadays to mollycoddle our kids.   Not sure when and why this trend happened but almost all of us parents have fallen into the trap.
My major fear is that he will be on his own for long periods when I am away.  Joe may have other ideas.  Joe tells me he can go around his mates’ houses and the “not girlfriend” Eve only lives up the road!  I have asked his aunty, Karen, to keep an eye on him.  His artful 12-year-old cousin Ciaran has told him “she [K.aren] will do his cooking and I will do your head in!” 
One of my worst nightmares may become a reality.  I can’t think anything much worse than going clothes shopping with Joe.  Walking around Topman enthusiastically saying “Joe this looks good, what do you think?”
The response is generally “nah” or “alright”!
I will be looking for volunteers to carryout this task.  In fairness to Joe he doesn’t rate me as the top shopper either.
I am disappointed to learn that whilst away Joe will have his school prom on July 4th marking the end of his school era.  In typical fashion Joe tells me “everyone’s not bothered” These kids have no sense of occasion!  So I need to dig a bit deeper to find out what’s happening by getting in tune with the mums jungle drums. 
The day after I return Joe is off to Malia with his mates.  Every time I mention Malia other parents pull a face as to say “Oh my god!  Have you seen the TV programme about Malia”?  I can only imagine.  I daren’t watch it.  At least I will be home by the time he leaves.   However, I will need to sort out the foreign currency before I disappear off for a couple of weeks.  When Georgina went inter-railing last year she used Travelex Cash Passport bought from Sainsburys.  Basically you load the card with money before leaving ready to use as a debit card in shops, bars and at ATMs whilst away.  A big advantage is that the card cannot be overdrawn and can be reloaded remotely if required.  Additionally the card is secure and there is 24/7 global assistance.  In fact the Cash Passport is the modern day travellers cheque.  Obviously, I will need to check the charges to ensure to find the best value.  http://www.moneysupermarket.com/travel-money/
There is so much to do and plan over the next 8 weeks before I’m off.  No doubt there will be more that I haven’t even thought of besides.  “Hey!  There’s ages to go yet!  NOT!  

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