Top 10 tips for going on holiday as a single dad

1. Wherever you end up and whoever you go with, you must have the mindset that you are going to enjoy yourself.

2. See if you can tag along with friends. At least then you have some company to enjoy your time with.  Plus you wont look like “Johnny No Mates”.  If they are good mates then will have some empathy with your emotional state

3. Be aware of the additional charges when booking flights. I was amazed when I had to pay £30 to check in a bag. And this was 50% online discount rate.  Share a suitcase with the kids or even pack carry-on bags

4.  Make sure you don't look like a geek on the beach.  Hairy backs don't cut it. Treat yourself to a haircut or even some male grooming http://bespokemalegrooming.com

5. DON'T pack the Speedos. Unless you've got the body of Adonis, Speedos will give the impression you're on some police list.  A quick trip to the local shopping mall should sort you out.  House of Fraser seemed to be having continuous Sales so you can get kitted for not too much of the folding stuff. http://www.houseoffraser.co.uk

6.  Drown yourself in your favourite tipple. Bombay Sapphire and tonic will get a right seeing to when I'm away!  

7. If hiring a car always check the small print.  What they tell you at the desk doesn't always get transmitted to the agreement. I always get caught out on the petrol.

8. Sitting by the beach, chillaxing and watching the world go by will allow you to relax.  Also give you time to reflect and give you space to starting your future.

9. Treat your friends. They probably have had to put up with babbling all week, leaving your clothes everywhere and not putting the top on the toothpaste . Treat them to a nice meal as way of saying thank you.

10.  Worth repeating number 1…make sure you enjoy yourself!